biodtl - 2005-04-29 12:37:04
Thanks for the kind words - right back at ya!
Andy - 2005-04-29 12:42:09
Why do we bare our souls....

Let me sum it up for you in one word.


Um, not everyone did the woo-hoo Judd chant.
Greg - 2005-04-29 12:53:38
I called Judd a tool. I stand by my words.
NoGoodDaddy - 2005-04-29 12:59:30
There's no "'s" on the end. Otherwise, you got it.
Immaturity is fun. So is having an outlet because you normally drive your wife carzy because you don't have any real-life friends and don't talk to anyone at work because they're all neanderthals.
BigPimpinMBA - 2005-04-29 13:11:07
Thanks for the nod of approval. I seriously appreciate what you said. I'm not a writer by any stretch of the imagination, but I do my best and I'm really happy that people seem to enjoy some of the crap that I write.

On the Judd thing.. although I certainly wouldn't do anything like what he is doing, I know of people who have known each other for only a few weeks and have tied the knot to much success. It seems that Judd and his new bride-to-be have been talking for quite a while, so I can't say that any of us can judge where they are in their relationship. I've traded e-mails and comments with the guy and I really like him. Of course, if I knew that his bride-to-be was an axe-murderer or a complete bitch when he wasn't around, I'd offer my words of caution. But, all I have to go by are the words that he has written, and, based upon those words, I can't see myself saying anything BUT "Congratulations" to him and wish him the best.

Thanks again for your words.
BigPimpAgain - 2005-04-29 13:16:32

I had to go look up "puerile" and found out that you just called me an immature ass. I thought I was being wicked smaht and inferring what it meant. This just goes to prove your point and that I am wicked retahded.

Thanks for the immature link anyway. Now, I wish I had a big, fancy SAT word to call you back. I'll just stick with the puerile Turdburglar for now, though.
Andy - 2005-04-29 13:22:24
Ha ha big Pimp. At least i was smart enough to look it up before I commented.

P>learned the hard way when someone called me "non compos".

"Why thank you, I try not to be very formal."

NoGoodDaddy - 2005-04-29 14:43:01
I have 2 other comments about Pounce:
I agree about the shapes. Like cats give a shit
The shapes must be for the kids. Not that mine eats it or anything...I'm just saying as all
twobaddogs - 2005-04-29 15:09:24
There's no "'s" on the end of what? Puerile little bastards.
NoGoodDaddy - 2005-04-29 15:35:05
Where my wife works. No "'s" at the end. It doesn't belong to anyone. It is for everyone...well...not really...just the filty rich
Cookie KB - 2005-04-29 18:43:37
I don't know anything about anyone that was discussed in any part of the entry today, but as an opinionated person myself, I think it's best to be honest. I happen to be a big, fat blabbermouth, but I am open and honest with people. There are no surprises here. Having said that, I'll add another blabber: Greg is really lucky to have someone like you (and I'm sure he knows that too). We were reminiscing about the wedding the other day, and the concensus among all the male members of the family is that you are "one fine -lookin', -actin', -talkin' woman. It's too bad that [TBD] ain't single!" You're also pretty damn funny on this thing. Good job, kid.
Wombat - 2005-04-29 19:52:05
NGD, I take great offense at your comment! We are not all Neanderthals here! I am Cro-Magnon! we also have Austalopithecus and Homo Habilis as well...
NoGoodDaddy - 2005-04-30 11:34:08
Wombat, You said Homo
ochweidnit - 2005-05-03 04:56:00

You expected it, so here it is. Its ok to be critical of someone's decisions if you care about them. It is not ok to insult someone and cast hateful, loaded aspertions if you don't know them from a bar of soap. It's good to know you have summed up the WHOLE situation from information gleaned from PERSONAL rantings, written abstractly and cathartically ... and then assumed Judd himself knows no more than you.

Wait, this is the internet! It IS ok to say whatever you want! YOU are a jaded, bitter, jealous, coldhearted cow who wants to bring everyone elses life down so yours looks better by comparison. You are so busy being little Miss Conformo that anyone who DARES to be different scares the bejeezus out of you, because you can't BARE the thought you may have missed out on something.

How far from the mark was that?

Think about it.
asabove - 2005-05-03 08:51:46
Your preamble is worthless. Behind what we say and do... is the truth. Freedom of speech goes all ways, it's not "here is my piece, and all responses are just piss in the wind". My view is as valuable as yours... in fact it is a thousand fold more valuable. Not because of childish name calling, but because I KNOW these people. What you said was true, and completely redundant. Let me illustrate: A deaf man, the son of a poverty stricken prostitute. One of several children, most effected with some debilitating birth defect due to their mother being infected with syphilis when they were born. This is the truth about one man, but it is also completely redundant when you cease viewing chosen facts... try the whole picture... Beethoven. Try this on for size, Welfare mother of two, on the rebound from a man who is now in the loony bin.... WifeToBe. She is an extraordinary human being, an artist, a writer, an amazingly empathic and generous soul, she has borne tribulations few have seen and come out of it clean and shining like a beacon. Full of hope and love and vitality. Did you know that she climbed to the roof and smashed a window in order to save her ex's life? Have you seen the eyes of this amazing woman reflecting the overwhelming emotion shining from Judd's eye? Did you know that they have the same soulful green eyes? It must be easier living a life where everything is black and white, but I'll keep my world thanks. Where the black and white of facts and hurtful labels are overwhelmed by two pairs of vibrant green eyes... that don't need to speak at all.
twobaddogs - 2005-05-03 11:17:29
Hmmm. I don't think I cast any hateful aspersions at all. I don't think you read or understood what I said. I don't think you can BARE (or bear, if you want to be fussy) to have anyone question anything you do or say, even in a reasonable and thoughtful and considerate way. I called no one any names. All I did was express my opinion about information that was freely shared.
asabove - 2005-05-03 12:19:56
hmmm, spelling mistakes, that sure is a good point...
Greg - 2005-05-03 14:44:54
If this woman is so amazing, why doesn't she load her ass on a plane and move to be with Judd? He has a career, house, dog. Did I mention job?
Is her high powered carreer in Australia? Probably not.
Life is black and white, some people choose to work and be productive members of society, while others choose to be welfare moms/extrodinary human beings.
RDC - 2005-05-03 22:27:29
“Productive member of society”? What could be more productive than raising members of the next generation in their own home? So I am supposed to have them and then hand them to someone else to raise? Hmm… wait, I get it. You are talking about the whole tax thing, aren’t you? Well it sure was nice of you to assume I don’t pay taxes. Real nice also to see it as more kids born into welfare, instead of victims of a tragic circumstance. Nice and neat, black and white. EXCEPT - they weren’t born into welfare. And I worked up until I was 8 months pregnant with my first. THEN when the shit hit the fan, I became a home carer to keep X out of the public hospital system – we get free healthcare in Aus. Also, FYI, childcare is part taxpayer funded here. Career? Never wanted one apart from ‘useless’arty stuff - though I am highly employable. Somebody needs to serve coffee to Elite Societal Contributors like yourself, so I’ll be sure to get onto that as soon as my kids are school-age. Thank you for your concern.
ochweidnit - 2005-05-03 22:59:22

I read and understood perfectly what you said, even things not implicitly stated. Your predjudice is as plain as your ignorance of what these people are and do. Using emotionally charged terms is insulting. And he chose to come here, and she has stated that if he cannot come here, she will be going there. She has as much holding her here as he has holding her there, and yet you expect her to "prove" her worthiness by giving it all up, but somehow he doesn't have to.

I am basically glad that everyone doesn't have the same acidic outlook on life as you. The less skeptical of us can separate love from money. Take your attitude publicly to all the "stay at home parents" (less emotionally charged term for the same people), and see if they are happy with your assessment of their lack of productivity.

In closing, this is a comments section, not an english exam room. You do not award me grades, and those that do consistently award me highly. Please get control of your superior attitude.

ochweidnit - 2005-05-03 23:09:36
*holding HIM there ..... IF you want to be fussy.
Judd - 2005-05-03 23:46:29
Interpretations abound.
You've quoted me with, "Hey! I'm quitting my job, selling all of my stuff, getting rid of my dog, selling my house, moving around the world and marrying a welfare mom with two kids who I've known for two weeks and whose ex-?husband? is in the loony bin because he tried to kill himself!"
An interesting interpretation, when I remember writing, "I never really expected anyone to understand. ... The important thing, to me at least, is that I understand and WifeToBe understands. ... I could never really hope to capture how much I love her in a goddam diary anyway."
Awrighty then, I guess I'll take your: "So, why do we blog? ... Is it the need for acceptance, the "I'm smart, I'm popular, look at me!" aspect?"
And say...
Ya know...
I'm going to let that one, combined with your interpretation, and let them speak for themselves.

All the best,
Greg - 2005-05-04 01:56:53
Nobody quoted you Judd, reread.

I find it funny that you are redirected here to stand up for yourself.

Most of us strive to not be controled by emotions, yet you seem to crave it.
Greg - 2005-05-04 12:26:50
Congrats on knowing how to pour a cup of coffee. It should help you cope with your belief that your life is so much more difficult than everyone else's. I guess it is to be expected from someone who considers working for a living elitist.

Perhaps you should consider blaming yourself for some crappy choices in life instead of nailing yourself to a cross and expecting everyone to buy into your emotionally charged and dramatic take on life.

Life is what you make of it, or in your case take for it.
asabove - 2005-05-04 21:38:30
Look I don't know why anyone is still watching this page... to watch this train wreck of a human being "Greg" bag love, life in colour, Judd, his WTB. Wifetobe is trying to LIVE her life... by the way are you a doctor? A Lawyer? Oh... you’re a student? So... you don't work either? Not full-time anyway. Crucifixion is an interesting phrase... Jesus was unemployed wasn't he? I for one am finished looking at this shit, you have no argument. You were unable to rebut any of my statements effectively... BUT you DID get a bit of popularity (negative attention?) for a time, you and... two dogs... hmmm interesting that. Congratulations. I for one feel stupider from having listened to you. This is the end of the line. Respond all you like, I won't be back. Nay-sayers of love, black and white is were you will stay. I doubt many readers will want the same. By the way... your diary really SUCKS. I mean, mines boring but GEEZE you can't string a coherent sentence together. I had a lovely time... unfortunately THIS WASN'T IT.
RDC - 2005-05-04 22:01:24
I see the concept of sarcasm is lost on you. Not too bright, are we? Well, for your sake I will spell it out. I don’t consider working elitist, but I refer to YOU as elite, for this is the impression you have given, with your perfect life and impeccable decisions. Your impression of me, that I see my life as oh-so-uniquely difficult, only adds to my belief in you as an utter ignoramus. I keep a friggin diary. Do you think I walk around talking like Reyne De Coupe does all day? I love my life, little man, and I wouldn’t exchange it for yours if I was paid to do so. This ends here. Continuing this battle of wits with such an unarmed opponent is beneath me.
Greg - 2005-05-05 00:03:37
BTW the human train wreck goes to graduate school part time, works full time, has maintained a relationship for several years, and still has time to show a few snotty Ozzies that the world won't always agree with them.
Andy - 2005-05-05 09:22:45
I'm still here. What I am amazed at is Judd states, "he doesn't expect anyone to understand", and when others give thier impression, the shit hits the fan.

It's kinda like serving someone dinner, and stating, "I know you won't like this, but here ya go...".

And the person responds: "You're right, I don't like it".

"I knew you wouldn't. You suck".

This is degenerating into spiteful attacks....
Greg - 2005-05-05 10:26:48
I wouldn't say it is degenerating into personal attacks, it went straight there. I find it mildly amusing since I have no work right now, these people are downright nasty. It make me feel like the Crocodile Hunter, "Krikey this is an angry one!"

One of my favorite parts is that they seem to be trolling diaryland via google searches trying to find people to argue with.

I just hope I don't cause an international incident and get a booting like Bart Simpson.
Andy - 2005-05-05 12:24:26
I think some of the comments here are very revailing. I'd be embarrsassed if i were some folks.

blah blah blah:

your name:
your email:
your url:

back to the crap - Diaryland